How we got started in the Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle - Part: 2 (Blog #6)

The Hotwife Lifstyle

by: Wife 

2004

How it all began...After having a few couples only experiences, and me not finding them as exciting as I had hoped, realizing I'm not really into women like I thought I would be. I decided to call my husband up at work on a Saturday afternoon and told him I wanted to try a single guy. I was frustrated with getting 4 people all on the same page and that I wanted the attention. After a night with his friend and being the main focus, I was ready for more. 

Back then there wasn't much information on being a "Hotwife", hell, there wasn't really a mainstream term. But once he did some researching, he found the a hotwife site and dove head first. I let him learn it all and tell me about it. I'll be totally honest.....the more he told me about it, I was a little hesitant and unsure why he liked it so much. I mean, he was REALLY into watching me with other men. Any woman would initially question why their husband wants & encourages his wife to have sex with another man...."if he's "letting" me do this, then what's he doing".

2005

Those stupid insecure thoughts went away with each meeting & hook-up. The more we did it, I learned more about myself sexually and it became such a huge part of our sexual foreplay. Which we all know begins to lack the longer you've been married. 

I have found myself enjoying the getting ready process. I love to dress up in a sexy LBD and high heels. I love to have him shave & prep me for my date. Making sure every part of me is absolute perfection. 

It excites me to such a level, knowing that I am his personal porn star. He videos my trysts with my bulls, boyfriends, doms....all for his personal enjoyment and a small handful of the lucky ones. 

The best part of him taking pics & video, he has pointed out some things in me that I didn't know existed. Over the years, I've accepted the fact that I have a submissive side and I love to push my limits. I have gone bareback with only a select few men, I've started playing alone and eventually began traveling to see a boyfriend in another state.

You give me some good conversation, not all sexual, show some class & intelligence and make me feel that you're a genuine, sincere person......you'll have my wet panties in your hand. 

To be continued............ CUCKOLDING

MFM 2005

How we got started in the Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle - Part 1 (Blog #5)

Swinging 

Written by - Husband

We pretty much got into the lifestyle the same way everyone else has. We started out swinging which led to us discovering the hot wife, cuckold lifestyle.

1997 - The actual photo for our ad

I met my wife when we were both 17 and we started dating when we were18. We've had a great relationship from the start. Both of us were faithful and honest and enjoy exploring new things. We were dating for two years and we planned on getting married we both turn 21. It was during this time when we were in bed she told me she wanted to try a three-way with another woman. So like a good boyfriend I told her I would try to make that happen. This was in the late 90's and the Internet was still new to us. The only way we knew how to meet anybody was a local magazine at the adult bookstores. It had Classified ads for everything MM, FF, MFMF, MFM and FMF.

So I took a Polaroid picture wrote up an ad and got a PO Box and sent it in. For the next year, nothing happened. But we did notice a lot of ads for couples that were into swinging and the female was bi. Then I remember seeing a documentary about it on HBO's series "Real SEX". So we found an and responded to it. To our surprise, they were a great couple. We ended up meeting and playing with them. We weren't considered your hard-core swingers at the time. We would attend a few parties and meet with them once, maybe twice, a year and to this day we are still friends with them.

1997 - Swinger party 

It was during this time my wife realized she didn't care for playing with other females. One day while I was at work, she called me and said she wanted to try a three-way with me and another guy. The adrenaline rush I got from that phone call was something I'll never forget. A few months later a close friend of our is came into town. Since he was the only one who knew about our swinger lifestyle, my wife thought he would be a good candidate to test out. So I asked him if that a problem with him, he didn't hesitate and said yes. One night we decided to have some drinks at the house, started to kiss her, then I joined in. When it was all over she told me that was something she definitely something she wants to do again.

1998 - Picture for MFM ad

This was back in 1998, so I ran a dating ad on Yahoo classifieds and we met up with a gentleman that had experience with couples. We met for drinks and he suggested we go back to his house. While we were at his house we all got to the hot tub and I was watching my wife make out with him. I found myself enjoying it more and more. Then a few weeks later we met with him again, as he started kissing her, I stepped back and watched. She called me over to join, but I just found myself watching the two of them. I was really enjoy what was happening right in front of me.

So as I did my research on the Internet about MFM 3 ways I came across a webpage of a hotwife named Jackie. That was the first time I heard the term"Hotwife". I actually paid for a membership to her page and that's when I knew this is what I wanted to do.

To be continued.......

Quarantine 2020 - Longest I have ever gone?.... (Blog #4)

...Without letting another man cum inside me!

by: The Wife

I can’t believe it’s been 2 full months since I’ve been with another man. This is the longest dry spell (literally “dry”...LOL) I’ve ever had. I’m used to dressing up & going out at least 2 times a month!  

(Mr.S1.0 video Available tomorrow OnlyFans)

The last time we went out, I was able to get 3 guys in one night.  Two good fucks and an intense make out session with a new/potential dom.
The night started with a reconnection with a Bull I’ve known for a while (Mr.S1.0). He’d been out of the picture for 2 years because he was in a vanilla relationship and she didn’t know about his lifestyle. He came to my hotel room with a gift, like he’s always done. When he walked thru that door, my body tingled and I was ready for him to take me right there. 

He sat on the couch, we made small talk and then we started kissing, I felt his rock hard cock and was ready for it. I undid his pants and started sucking his cock. I got up and climbed on top of him......letting his bare cock slide deep inside me. He fucked so good I didn’t want to stop and I let him cum in me. 

He recovered fairly quick and we went to the bed and I asked my husband to leave and go pick me up something to eat so I can have some alone time with him. On the bed he fucked me missionary and then doggy style my absolute favorite way. My husband came back we said our goodbyes and planned on meeting again in a couple of weeks. 

The night was still early, so we decided to grab a drink with a new potential Dom (Sir.TO) to see if there was chemistry. Guess what? THERE WAS!! We didn’t have a lot of time because I had another date later. We decided to go to the truck, got in the back seat. I was just planning on a little kissing or showing my boobs. But instead, I got the best fingering I’ve had in years. I had to return the favor by sucking his cock. I can’t wait for this quarantine to end, because I want to feel that cock inside me. (See teaser video on PH & Full Video on OnlyFans)

Temporary tattoo & Sir.TO

My last date of the night was my longtime Lover/Bull/Boyfriend (Mr.SB). I’ve been with him for 15 years (that’s a whole separate post coming later). He always knows how to fuck me in every position with that hard cock that I have loved for so long. I wore a special outfit I bought just for him along with a chain bra. The last time I saw him was back in October and I definitely needed to feel him inside me again. 


He showed up right on time and started kissing me and undressed me. Then made me get on my knees and suck his cock. We moved from the couch to the bed and he fucked me with his bare cock .....Deep, hard and in every position . He always knows how to keep this girl happy. (video coming soon)

Mr. SB

By the end of the night, I was ready to let my husband take what was left of me and let him cum in me. 

This is the last time I’ve let him fuck me bareback or cum in me. Since the pandemic began, we have fucked a total of 4 times and only with a condom or a cock sleeve (see video here on P.hub)   I will not let him fuck me bare or cum in me. 

I’m saving myself for one of my bulls to fuck me bareback and give me what I need.

Why Older Men? (Blog #3)

Summer 2010

I've been asked numerous times, "Why older men?". Let me start by saying, I don't have "daddy issues" and the men I'm attracted to are nothing like my dad. In fact, my dad was more like my best friend growing up and we get along great!

Now to explain where my desire for these sexy older men came from. When I was 17, working retail, we always had a security guard in the store. Our security guards were local police officers looking for some overtime, not a bunch of Paul Blarts. I practically working full time back then, so I had a lot of interaction with security. But there was one that seemed to attract my attention, maybe it was the fact that he was good with his words and was easy to talk to. Over time, I learned that he was 35 years old & married! To any 17y/o girl, 35 is OLD!!! And the married part didn't bother me because we weren't doing anything wrong....at the time.

One day, we were talking and it turned a little more flirtatious. Subtle touches, hidden masses in the back room. It was exciting for me to have the attention of an older, attractive man in a somewhat powerful position. One night at work, he asked if I wanted to go somewhere to talk after work....Absolutely!!! We drove around for a bit just talking, then we drove to his apartment that he was either just moving into or moving out of, regardless, it was empty with a few boxes, blankets & pillows. Once we got inside and he kissed me, I was hooked. I was so turned on, he was so confident, classy.  The way he took control of me undressing me and laying me on the floor with only a blanket. I don't think he was expecting me to go this far with him because he wasn't prepared and neither of us had condoms. That didn't stop us and the sex was nothing like I'd ever experienced with guys my age.

Over the years, I've always found myself attracted to older men and never could figure it out. One night I lying in bed talking to my cuck husband, telling him about that experience and that's when it hit both of us....my tryst with the older married security guard had lied dormant in my mind until I met my husband and we opened the doors to the swinging lifestyle. Of all of the men I have been with black, white, young, old....I am truly most attracted to and enjoy an older, confident, classy, dominate man that knows how to carry a good conversation that leads into some of the hottest, exciting, even the kinkiest kind of sex.

All about me the Hot Wife (Blog #2)

1st Nude picture - Polaroid 18yrs old

Everything you need to know about me:

• Early 40's
• 5'3" 
• 130 lbs (for now) 
• 36 D natural
• Size 6/med dress/tops 
• 8.5 in heels
• Long dark hair & Hazel eyes
• No tattooos or body piercings (use to have belly button) 

As we continue with this blog I promise to go into further detail about our sex life. For example when I was 23, thats when we officially learned about hot wife lifestyle and we made the decision to explore that more. 

My sex life timeline:

• Lost virginity: 14
• First older man: 17
• Met Husband: 18
• Married: 21
• Swinging: 21
• MFM w/Hubby: 22
• Official Hotwife: 23
• MFM wo/Hubby: 27
• MMFM wo/Hubby: 29
• 1st Bareback: 29
• Play alone: 32
• 1st Dom: 34
• Cuckold/Denial Hubby: 38



Swinger party - 21yrs old

• Overnight/Travel alone: 40

All the pictures you see on this blog are 100% me.  I know a lot of you are going to asked me why I hide my face and her are my reason.

1. I am not a public porn star 
2. I have two kids
3. I am a soccer mom and would prefer to be able to stay active in the community
4. I have a full time career 
5. I wouldn't want to give my parents, family, friends and church members a heart attack 

And while some forms of sexuality are now acceptable in this day and age, the hotwife/cuckolding is still new to a lot of people and is frowned upon. 

I know what some of you are thinking "If your face all the time how do we know it's really you and not a bunch of pictures you found on the web" I can promise you that I have a unique feature on my body that will assure you all the pictures and video you see me. 

Because we have to keep this blog PG-13 you can see more of me Twitter page. And because Twitter has certain guidelines we are currently working on a OnlyFans page and possibly the Hub. 

1. Officially became a Hotwife - 23yrs      2. First time playing alone - 32 yrs                3. First time travel/overnight - 40yrs