Why Older Men? (Blog #3)

Summer 2010

I've been asked numerous times, "Why older men?". Let me start by saying, I don't have "daddy issues" and the men I'm attracted to are nothing like my dad. In fact, my dad was more like my best friend growing up and we get along great!

Now to explain where my desire for these sexy older men came from. When I was 17, working retail, we always had a security guard in the store. Our security guards were local police officers looking for some overtime, not a bunch of Paul Blarts. I practically working full time back then, so I had a lot of interaction with security. But there was one that seemed to attract my attention, maybe it was the fact that he was good with his words and was easy to talk to. Over time, I learned that he was 35 years old & married! To any 17y/o girl, 35 is OLD!!! And the married part didn't bother me because we weren't doing anything wrong....at the time.

One day, we were talking and it turned a little more flirtatious. Subtle touches, hidden masses in the back room. It was exciting for me to have the attention of an older, attractive man in a somewhat powerful position. One night at work, he asked if I wanted to go somewhere to talk after work....Absolutely!!! We drove around for a bit just talking, then we drove to his apartment that he was either just moving into or moving out of, regardless, it was empty with a few boxes, blankets & pillows. Once we got inside and he kissed me, I was hooked. I was so turned on, he was so confident, classy.  The way he took control of me undressing me and laying me on the floor with only a blanket. I don't think he was expecting me to go this far with him because he wasn't prepared and neither of us had condoms. That didn't stop us and the sex was nothing like I'd ever experienced with guys my age.

Over the years, I've always found myself attracted to older men and never could figure it out. One night I lying in bed talking to my cuck husband, telling him about that experience and that's when it hit both of us....my tryst with the older married security guard had lied dormant in my mind until I met my husband and we opened the doors to the swinging lifestyle. Of all of the men I have been with black, white, young, old....I am truly most attracted to and enjoy an older, confident, classy, dominate man that knows how to carry a good conversation that leads into some of the hottest, exciting, even the kinkiest kind of sex.